January 11th, 2017
Walk mindfully, whether you are in the garden, going to your doctor’s office, or to the supermarket. What are you feeling? Pick a feeling and say this about it:
I know that _____ is here.
I know this is just a feeling.
I know this feeling will pass.
I know I am calm.
I know I am strong enough to take care of this _____.
September 21st, 2016
I have chosen Oncology as my first area of focus. Morale among the staff seems generally good. Among the patients, those who are going to be discharged soon are upbeat. Most, though, are weighed down by the great iron ball of illness. They walk doggedly down the hall, a nurse at their side, dragging the ball behind them. Or they lie in bed with the ball pressing down on them, looking up, wondering what will happen next. I long to take that ball away, or at least lift it up and make it a little lighter.
July 24th, 2016
People look at me oddly when I tell them I’m going to spend Sunday at the hospital. Or when I tell them I voluntarily spend time in the emergency room. Why would go spend time doing that? their expression says.
If you have spent years caring for kids, if you enjoyed the “job” of parenting and miss doing it, you will feel at home caring for people in a hospital. At least I do. It’s good to have a role to play. It’s good to have staff people greet you when you come in, and patients look happy when you appear. You do worry about what’s going to happen, and you do dead some disaster. But must Minnehaha are small and human and quiet, and I like being part of that.
December 22nd, 2015
One of the most successful online marketplaces for musical instruments in the country is located just four or five blocks from my house. It’s caed Reverb.com and I got to visit the offices recently. Thanks to the people who work there for letting me hang out them them. There were lots of instruments in their space. They get together and jam sometimes after work. Cool place to work!
The article is here: http://www.ecommercebytes.com/cab/abu/y215/m11/abu0384/s02.
December 20th, 2015
Over the past four months I have undertaken two life-changing projects. I am taking a Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE) at Advocate Lutheran General Hospital in Park Ridge, IL. And I have helped create a nonprofit organization called Devices 4 the Disabled (D4D). These two things have given me a new direction. Bu they are tied together because they are both ways to help people. The Dalai Lama said that the only way to be happy is to practice compassion. When you cultivate loving kindness you yourself are happy. CPE and D4D both act as laboratories for this. But we all have our own laboratories.
One big kid joined all the little kids in the sprinkler at our block party yesterday.
August 16th, 2015
“The atomic bomb is the perfect symbol of wicked wisdom.”
August 11th, 2015
“A lot of our research is based on outlook, not inlook. If people did inlook research just as we research rabbits and mice, they would have a big surprise.”
August 10th, 2015
Yogurt in back, kefir in front on the left, kombucha on the right. You can never have too many probiotics aroun
d the house or in your gut, I say.
August 8th, 2015
My ECommerceBytes article on e-mail triggers is up at http://www.ecommercebytes.com/cab/abu/y215/m08/abu0381/s02. It’s based on a workshop at IRCE in Chicago last June.
What’s an email “trigger?” It’s an event that causes your email marketing system to send a message to certain individuals who have been visiting or shopping on your e-commerce website. The whole system depends on people logging in the moment they visit, so you can identify them and contact them later. Nathan Decker at evo.com, a sports equipment seller, explained how he and a programmer worked up a system that automatically approached people even if they were simply looking on the site–not even if they had gotten to the point of an abandoned cart. It seemed a tiny bit intrusive to me. If you are just casually looking on a site and don’t buy anything, would you respond positively to a marketing email encouraging you to buy something similar? I would not. But that’s just me. Some less-automated and less-expensive version can certainly be worked up by e-commerce sellers on a budget.