Chaplains and Volunteers in Hospitals and Hospice
Whether it is called “life review,” “dignity therapy,” or a life story, I found as a chaplain that talking about the patient’s life was a profound and healing experience. Not to mention a good ice breaker.
Life stories and how they can build connections of all sorts among those struggling with serious illness, families struggling with anticipatory grief, and chaplains wondering how to talk to families about difficult subjects.
For the seriously ill, the possibility of imminent death is a natural time to review. Rather than turn to regret, loneliness, or spiritual distress, you can help the patient by listening and asking key questions. You can turn a victim into a victor just by appreciating someone for who they are. This can open the person to a deeper spiritual discussion or prayer moment, if the person wishes.
